I have googled this problem and everyone just keep saying "be patient it will get through sooner or later". Well it has now been 4 days and it still says 0/6 confirmations. I did not send it with a miners fee which is why it's not instant but it feels like 4 days is a long time. I'm using bitcoin-qt wallet on a ubuntu 12.04 computer if that makes any difference. Also when I go to blockchain.info and try to search for my transaction I cant find it. I have right clicked on my transaction and tried to search for everything thats in details but I still cant find my transaction. Should I just wait and see if its going to get through?
I have read that you can double spend and then send this new one with a miners fee. I have tried to read up about this but I'm quite worried because its a lot of money that I'm sending and I don't want to do anything wrong.