From what I understand, you are asking whether one can customize a client running at a mining pool to favour some transactions based on factors like what metadata they contain or where they were sent from.
The answer is, yes, it would be pretty easy if you would be able to program a custom client or pool software.
Searching for a piece of information in a transaction is pretty easy and shouldn't require too much processing power (one could for example use OP_PUSHDATA and later OP_DROP to store some data without affecting the transaction). The downside is that anyone could see which transactions were potentially prepared like this.
If you wanted to discriminate based on where the data came from (for example, your own eWallet, or custom wallet running on a computer), you'd need to spend some more time coding, but one couldn't distinguish between your special transactions and the normal ones. You could for example encode the client to wrap the transaction up in some data packet and sign it using a specific key and algorithm before sending it to your server. You'd have to write some special code to check the signature and relay the information to the pool, but it shouldn't be too hard.
Such service would certainly go against the spirit of Bitcoin, and probably you'd get some backlash from the community if it found out, but it is possible none the less. Unless such a pool would hold a considerable amount of Bitcoin network's hashing power however, it would not disturb how the network works. However, if it was to reach 51+% percent of the hashing speed, as it is always with such an attack, it could control the entire network.
