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Does anyone know where I can bring my btc qt to credit my wallet from an unconfirmed transaction? I tried doing a transaction with coinbase and in a hurry I put no fee. So it's stuck in the mempool. I emailed coinbase to do a cpfp but I don't think they even know what that means. I even told them to debit my coinbase account the fee. Any help would be appreciated. The transaction was implemented ten days ago. Should I just wait? If you want to walk me through the process, so I can do it myself, ok. But please be specific, as far as what to type in the debug console, commands, etc. Not a programmer of any sort. Thanks.